Author: Tanela

Christmas time is my favorite time of year. The lights, the food, and the friends all bring me so much joy. This year has been filled with rough times, but somehow the reflection of bright lights only illuminates the many blessings that my family has experienced over this year. Christmas reminds me of the miracle of small deeds and acts that make a big impact.

I understand this is not everyone’s reality. If I allow it, even my own reality of grief and sadness can quietly slip in between the cake and the cookies. For those carrying unseen battles, especially mental ones, I always whisper a small prayer. It could have been me, truthfully, just two years ago, it was me.

To all the friends, family, and souls who are struggling right now: it’s okay. Take the time you need. Take a breath. Let yourself cry. You are not weak for feeling. You are human. And most of all, you are not alone. 💛

For some people, retail therapy, or even a holiday day trip make Christmas fun. Spending the holidays relaxing with family and refreshing my heart and mind is where I find solace. But mostly I love the downtime. Watching holiday classic films like Scrooge, The Family Man, The Santa Clause, or Die Hard. And before you even think it, argue with someone else over Die Hard being a Christmas movie. It is and will always be!

I love having the space to dream and ideate about holiday love stories waiting to be brought to life. I love the free time to read books that make my heart pump. Cozy mysteries, interesting fictional environments, and, of course, love stories that remind me of magic. The crisp scent of snow and the sight of joyful faces spark a kind of inspiration I don’t feel at any other time of year.

So, from the desk of TanelaWrites, here is my Christmas wish for you.

I pray you have a Merry Christmas. I want everyone in my circle and beyond to feel the love and joy of the holidays and the joy of life. Christmas time should have moments of happiness mixed with nostalgic love for things that really matter. I am hopeful that everyone has the opportunity to live, laugh, and love with people who make a difference in their lives.

Merry Christmas to you all.